Thursday, April 23, 2009
Service
Just fresh from reading Arpz's blog.Let me just type out something before the inspiration dies and I slip into my mundane routine.
I have been diligently waiting for this handy laptop to resume blogging.Blogging with no manager shoulder surfing what I am writing. With no fear, and with the ability to publish anything anyday working or otherwise. My employer has thoughtfully given this amazing equipment so that we can work no matter when.I am willing to take that bargain.
What do I write about? Hmmm.. My new job (Its been eight months but since I haven't written about it, I guess I can still call it new) .Ya my new job. It's better than the last one, or I know better now than I did then.
So what do I like about my new job? The timing is great. My shift starts only at 1:30 pm which means even if I do feel lazy in the morning, I still have time for an attitude shift before I miss my cab.My team is small and have dedicated people.My work seems good. Looks like I am doing what I read in a lot of experience columns in job opening emails.
There are no daily thresholds .No over pressure.No boring "escalation-prevention" meetings.
And then the ultimate luxury, we have a room to pray. Now that comes as the biggest blessing for me with our 5-times-a day praying routine.And not having a place in office means I have to finish it all off together . Now that's reason enough to love my job I guess.
So now for the REAL stuff! Something has been cramming me and my roommate's life for these past days . My maid didn't show up for THREE WEEKS! with no prior notice.Due to which all I can think about now is how important she is to me . (Ya ya, I know kannulapol kannite velayariyoola* Read below for translation)
I have heard and read about abuse of maids and how slaves and servants were ill treated in yesteryears and even now. All I can wonder is HOW! How can u ill treat or abuse someone on whose mercy we live.On whose mood swings and cramps our clean clothes and fresh rooms depend.
Me and my roommate have spent quite sometime last week praying, breaking coconuts,Doing Reiki etc etc for her to come back into our lives with clean clothes.As if this was not enough she seems super busy on her return,I have to chase her every morning,always wondering if it would be better if I got her a mobile, I could avoid running around climbing 5 floors searching for her.And then plead to her in my broken hindi about the plight of our room.
After all this I now know why my mom chose not to have a maid all these years.I think dependence is something we all have been escaping from.Now women don't need to depend on their husbands for money, but how many people are we depended upon to get our daily stuff done.If I start writing about my ironwala and the amount of vacation he takes,I could fill up ten other pages.Anyway he works only for about 10 days a month and then he disappears, this especially when all my clothes have been washed(with my maid's mercy) and now I cant wear them cause they are crumbled.
I know that the human society is inter dependant for its services.I get paid when I allocate storage so that the applications can fill it up with data. And I pay these people for providing me with pressed clean clothes and a fresh room.But if my application runs out of space,I get called upon even in the middle of the night to look into it.I provide my service 5 days a week and even on some weekends . I have to plan ages before I take a long leave.There are millions of dollars at stake if my work doesnt get done on time or gets delayed for even a day.
But is it ok if my bathroom looks dirty for few days.Is it ok if my clothes aren't pressed when I want them to be? Is it ok if these people disappear for weeks on end without a warning or a replacement?
I know I shouldn't compare.After all I get paid much more than they do.
If any maid abuser happens to read this, please let me know how you do it. HOW!
P.S: I have heard that my ironwala owns a bungalow somewhere in his hometown and he resides there as a king :)
*"We dont realise the value of eyes when we have it" is the closest translation of this malayalam proverb. If there are any similar english proverbs please let me know
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11 comments:
Our company rocks! I know! Did you read the first quarter results?
My maid in Tvm went nuts. She had a nervous breakdown. My mum is really good to her. She had a lotta trouble at home and kids to look after etc etc. Maybe something like that happened to your maid. Talk to the woman!
Services are real cheap in India. But with that comes inconsistency. Something we have to put up with I guess...
Hey nice one :-)
yeah, nice one (commenting just to let u know I read it) *grin*
"Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa you are backkkkkkkkkk!!!!! *hugsnkisses*
hmmm, and no I dont face that, cos I dont have a maid, but yeeah, it is a MAD mad rush everyday in the morning ... but no dependence :)
Lets meet up sometime ... and lets write about it, and make Bulshee jealous :D
Just days before you sent the link of your blog, My room-mate asked me why shouldn't I start writing blogs after he read my a-bit-too-long-mail I have sent to my dad about my Euro Trip. The first thing that comes to my mind when I hear the word blog is you.
Now, back to the topic, I/We never had any maid/servants. Hence, Never had an experience to miss them and never to abuse!
Do one really need a maid ? Maids don't have an equivalent maids to do their maid-jobs, do they? There is a huge salary difference between both of you, but that doesn't mean one should have a maid. Your maid might have a busier day than yours but even then she would never hire one maid for herself !
May be I might need maids and servants to manage my big mansion and Bungalow as I may not be able to manage all alone a massive structure.
Think.
hey i thought that you retired from blogging.
I used to squeeze out time from my 12-15 hour worktimes when i was in Polaris. Now that i am in SAP and i hardly work for 6 hours, i decided otherwise :D
Why cant we have maids here like J.Lo in "Maid in Manhattan" ?? :(
nice article. had a read a few articles of yours and other bloggers and thought of reviving my old long-forgotten blog. started off anew, let me know about your opinion.
the maid thing is sadly true, we have become so much dependent on them that their absence makes us completely helpless!!!
ever tried gettin a maid where you desperately need one to help take care of a huuuuge house and a sick person in a small village! Not a single soul :(
@Bullshee:
Opened my eyes, Services are really cheap.She washes a 100 clothes for 250 rs a month.
@Anonymous:
Who is this? Thanks
@Raghav:
Thanks for reading Raghav! When will you stop grinning!
@Arpz:
YESSS! When shall we meet??
@Amrith:
Yes you should write blogs. . You should!
Yes we don’t need maids. But that’s a luxury I hope I have for life.
@Arun
Yes Jennifer Lopez . Actually there are some cute maids back home. But dono if they wear J. Lo’s lip gloss..
@confused romantic:
Dependance. !
@Saphire:
If this village is in Kerala . I know! Have heard you get maids in all other states
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